From our overstocked archives
Sam Smith, 2013 - If
you want to scare the establishment, get people together who it doesn’t
think belong together. If you are students having a problem with your
principal don’t just go to his or her office with the usual
troublemakers; walk in with some of the smartest kids, some jocks, a few
punks, blacks, whites, latinos, and, best of all, the kids who never
seems to be interested in doing anything at all. Once when we were
fighting freeways in Washington, I looked up on a platform and there was
the Grovesnor Chapman, the chair of the white elite Georgetown Citizens
Association, and Reginald Booker head of a black militant organization
called Niggers Inc., and I said to myself, we are going to win. And we
did.
My old friend, the late Chuck Stone, really knew how to get
along with other people. When he was columnist and senior editor of the
Philadelphia Daily News, 75 homicide suspects surrendered to him
personally rather than take their chances with the Philadelphia police
department. Black journalist Stone also negotiated the end of five
hostage crises, once at gun point. “I learned how to listen,” he said.
Stone believed in building what he calls “the reciprocity of civility.”
His advice for getting along with other Americans: treat them like a
member of your family.
Show everyone respect and you’ll walk
comfortably among every class, subculture and ethnicity in this land.
Don’t show respect and you’ll live a lonely life.
Part of that
respect is towards yourself. Don’t apologize for who you are. Don’t be
afraid to argue with someone just because they are of a different
ethnicity. Arguing with someone is a form of respect too, because it
means you really care about what they think. But bear in mind that in a
community, your view is just an opinion and not a rule.
If you
are a member of an ethnic or other minority, remember that as an
activist your role is to provide solutions to problems and not merely to
be a symptom of them. To be a survivor and not a victim.
During
the civil rights movement, black leaders spoke not only to those of
their own culture but to many whites, especially young whites like
myself. The most influential book I read in college was Martin Luther
King’s ‘Stride Toward Freedom’ and it wasn’t on any required reading
list. Cesar Chavez had a similar cross-cultural appeal. But then as
African Americans became more successful in politics there was a
understandable but unfortunate tendency to retreat to a constituency you
knew you could rely upon. And so black leaders became much less
influential in the white community.
It’s an important lesson for any young black or latino activist.
Don’t
let your story be ghettoized; instead take that story and find the
universal in it, and use that story to move those who don’t look like
you but can understand the story because you made it theirs, too. The
greatest ethnic success stories in America have come when a minority
learned to lead the majority, as the Irish and Jews often did in the
past century.
